Want to sever the pain the relationship gives you?? Without severing the relationship!!

“I feel a bond with you like some strong wire or thread is binding us together”, we often feel or hear such things. “I wish to sever all ties with you” is also something we hear a lot of times.

What do you see common in both these feelings - any guesses??

Well, !! it’s the existence of a strong connection in the form of a thread or a cord that needs to be strengthened or severed. Every emotion, good or bad creates a cord between two people. These cords could be weak or strong depending on the intensity of the feeling and the time involved in the relationship. This could be a romantic relationship or any other between any two people.

A ritual called the process of cord cutting is a ritual of severing of unhealthy energetic bonds that exists between two people. This process helps in dissolution of discord between two people without dissolving the relationship.

Cord cutting has been practiced since ages in different parts of the world. The ceremonies, rituals and procedures followed may vary on cultural and spiritual practices of the region. Cord cutting can be performed by an expert healing practitioner or by oneself. It involves the release of negative or blocked energy of a person from your aura.

When done by an individual for self, it can be done by visualization of cutting energetic cords during meditative state. Depending on the depth and timeline of the relationship the ritual can be done once or more until one intuitively feels the release of bond to move forward towards a happier balanced life.

Understand that any process of energy healing is accompanied by release of negative energy from past blockages, so many a times heavy emotions come up during the cord cutting, you need to accept and honor these feelings to be able to be healed. Only then can we truly help ourselves move forward to a higher vibration of joy and peace. It might not be a quick process, but it definitely helps to transmute the pain from a relationship to tranquility that can help us grow. It helps in release from traumatic past and cleansing of our energy from our aura to experience cosmic love.

This simple process of cord cutting can bring back the balance in that we all want. Stay healthy, happy and blessed.

Dr. Sushma Dwivedi